Whatever's on offer, you're not interested. You politely say you'd love to join in, but your mind is already far away, dreaming about a little ground fighting. You're itching to get into your uniform and start working on an upward lift escape or a front collar scissor choke. That's what it's all about, and now you can let your tee or hoodie lead the way as you run away.
20 times a day I used to say " I can't help you now, I have to go to Jiu Jitsu class. Now, I'm able to mimic a Taoist Monk with a vow of silence- I only need point to my shirt and they all leave me alone.